Journey: cars

So at the moment I’m doing an assignment for my course on Sociology of News Production. The assignment requires that I attempt to be a citizen journalist. That is, write my own article and aim to get it published by some media outlet. I have submitted my article to the Roodepoort Record, but I thought I’d go the extra mile and post it on an online platform as well. Please feel free to comment below and let me know what you think of my article as well as any of your own views about the situation.

Thank You!

Danger: Ouklip Road

In recent months, Ouklip road has claimed more lives than it should. Or rather, has reckless and drunk driving claimed too many lives circumstantially in the same location? After reading of the first fatal accident on 30 June involving two young men in their 20s, I was left with a heavy heart. Why should anyone have to pass in such a way? However, tragedy struck again when another car ploughed into a tree not far from the first accident on 2 August.

Such incidents should bring road safety to anyone's mind and not only those who should be doing something about it, such as the JMPD or the Roads Agency. Despite countless attempts and campaigning against driving under the influence, many individuals continue to take chances. We go to great lengths to protect ourselves, but fail to think of protecting others. It would be careless and selfish of me to get behind the wheel with any alcohol in my system, never mind being under the legal limit. By doing such a thing I put my own life and my passenger's lives in danger, not to mention other individuals on the road. I choose to avoid driving late at night when such instances often occur for my own safety. Which relates directly to the point I'm trying to make. Why should the innocent individuals of society have to fear being on the roads because of other people's careless and reckless choices? We should be living in a society where we take responsibility for ourselves and show our neighbors the respect they deserve. We can do this by choosing not to drive under the influence, or exceed speed limits especially at night and on smaller roads.

The incidents of Ouklip road should be a wake-up call for society. It should be encouraging each individual to take responsibility for themselves and to respect others. Choosing to pay a taxi or designated driver service to take you home instead of driving drunk is one simple way anyone can make a difference. When it comes to the officials such as the JMPD, regular road blocks at night, especially on weekends near entertainment venues and on dangerous roads, like Ouklip should be a permanent fixture to curb the problem of drunk driving. The more consequences that action has, the greater change we will see in individual behaviour. Making our neighbourhoods and roads a safer place for everyone.

Yours in Education and Journalism,

<3 Nicole_Kayley

8 July 2013

Today, Monday 8^th July 2013... marks probably the saddest day of my life. In the early hours of this morning I lost my Grandfather. I was only blessed with one grandfather in this life and I believe he was the greatest man ever. The lessons he taught me have proved to be beyond valuable and his love for his family like nothing in this world. This post is dedicated to his memory and the amazing man he was and will forever be in our hearts.

Born 12 February 1922, with a family of seven sisters and two brothers that lived in Randfontein. I could never forget the story of how he ran away from school on his very first day, only to have his sister chase him to bring him back.

At the young age of 18, he went to fight in the western desert during World War II. He often had stories of war; most that he told us were entertaining. Stories of rats in the trenches, or his friend who cheated death when then rivet on the top of his helmet was shot off.

When he returned he worked for South African Railways. In November of 1946 he married the love of his life, Myrtle Young. Their marriage of 66 and a half years is one that taught their family and loved ones just what the commitment of marriage means as well as showed us all the meaning of true and selfless love. One time when Grampa was in hospital, although he was the sick one, he was constantly worried about Granny, and if she was comfortable and okay.

He was a man of God, and his faith along with Granny’s made for an inseparable bond between them. The night before their 65^th wedding anniversary, I slept over in their spare room and I witnessed the most incredible thing. I was lying in my bed reading while they were getting ready for bed. We said good night and not long after I heard Grampa’s voice in what sounded like a constant ramble of mumbling. Straining my ears to try and make out what exactly he was saying, I finally realised that he was reading from the Bible. When he had finished he said a prayer, and my heart melted as they shared an “Amen”. That moment I realised that their marriage was based on a mutual love for God and a commitment not only to each other but to God as well. An incredible life lesson for all of us.

Together they had four lovely daughters: Gail, Beryl, Yvonne and Ivy who gave them 9 grandchildren and 5 great-grandchildren with a sixth on the way. Family meant everything to my Grampa, and to be surrounded by his large family was all he ever wanted.

He was a true gentleman. He would always step aside to let you in the door before him. He often would say to me “Age before beauty” and send me through the door first. He was probably the friendliest man in our neighbourhood, saying hello or waving to anyone who walked past the gate on one of his numerous daily patrols of the property. He was always concerned about us when we were on the road, whether it was a long trip down to the coast, or a short trip to varsity. And whenever I would tell him I was on my way out, he insisted on checking if I had petrol and that my oil and water were all fine. I’ll still hear his voice in the back of my head when I get in the car to go out “Do you have oil and water? You don’t want to get stuck, Nic!”

When I think of my Grampa, one thing that has to come to mind is ice-cream. And I think anyone who knows him would agree! If Grampa didn’t want ice-cream after lunch, something was very wrong! Even on the coldest day in winter Grampa would insist on a bowl of ice-cream, and sometimes would ask for seconds especially if it came with custard.

Another thing I will never forget is the mornings when Grampa would take me to school. There would always be a Super C or two sitting on the bonnet waiting for me and my brother. On the way he would always sing songs to us such as “Heigh Ho, Heigh Ho and off to work we go”, “Daar kom die Alabama” or “I love to go a-wandering along the highland road. And as I go I love to sing, a knapsack on my back, valderie, veldera, valderie, veldera-ha-ha-ha-ha, my knapsack on my back-b-back-back-back”. He also had his catch phrases that I’ve even used a few times like:”All clear on the Western front!” (Translation: There are no cars coming from the left side). I remember when I was in pre-school, Grampa would turn on the heater when it was cold and since we always arrived at school too early, once he’d parked I would climb into the front seat to warm my hands in front of the fan. Another fond memory from my primary school days was when Grampa would fetch us in the afternoon, he would always bring my brother and I a small bottle of cola or creme soda flavoured soda steam. Even when he didn’t fetch us, he would send soda stream with mom.

It was the small things he did that made him a great man. If I had to write about all the great deeds and things I’ll remember about my Grampa, I could probably write a novel. He was more than just a grandfather to me, he was a best friend. It’s not going to be easy to live without him around; I know I’ll still hear his whistle from the back door when I’m in the kitchen, or picture his hand signals to tell me that it’s raining, when I see raindrops begin to fall. But all these things I shall keep in my heart forever, and spread love and friendliness around the way he could.

The thing that breaks my heart the most is that he won’t be here to see my brother and I graduate. It was something he always said: “I’ll be there in the front row when you walk across the stage”. I believe it was one thing he really wanted in this life: to see us all succeed in what we do. That is why I will dedicate my degree to him, to his memory. Because I know when graduation day comes, he will have the best seat in the house, from above!

When I looked up the exact words to the “Happy Wanderer” song, and discovered many more verses than Grampa used to sing. Reading through the lyrics, I could just picture Grampa singing those words, they were a perfect description of how he lived, and will continue to live in our hearts and memories.

The Happy Wanderer

I love to go a-wandering,
Along the mountain track,
And as I go, I love to sing,
My knapsack on my back.

Chorus:
Val-deri,Val-dera,
Val-deri,
Val-dera-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha
Val-deri,Val-dera.
My knapsack on my back.

I love to wander by the stream
That dances in the sun,
So joyously it calls to me,
"Come! Join my happy song!"

I wave my hat to all I meet,
And they wave back to me,
And blackbirds call so loud and sweet
From ev'ry green wood tree.

High overhead, the skylarks wing,
They never rest at home
But just like me, they love to sing,
As o'er the world we roam.

Oh, may I go a-wandering
Until the day I die!
Oh, may I always laugh and sing,
Beneath God's clear blue sky!

On Sunday afternoon when I last saw Grampa, before I left I said to him: “I’ll come see you tomorrow, and I’ll bring Granny”. I’m sad to say I couldn’t keep my word. Even though tomorrow may not be Monday 8^th July as I intended, the day I see him again will be our “tomorrow”.